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Most People Are Bisexual

Apparently, “homosexuality” and “heterosexuality” have increasingly become two artificial terms defined by human society who’s obsessed by order. People say homosexuality is not natural, but this is nonsense: if we look anywhere in nature, we’ll detect animal homosexuality all around…

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Hundreds of species of mammals, birds, fish, insects, lizards, snakes, turtles, salamanders and toads have been described to display homosexual behavior. Homosexuality, perceived as an unnatural phenomenon, is now widely rejected from a scientific point of view.

In some species, it is a common behavior and it even enhances the reproductive success of the colony or of the population!

But which could be the cause of human homosexuality, where does it occur (and this causes the trouble)?

The American psychologist Robert Epstein believes that sexual orientation variation not matching the gender could be genetically normal. Human traits can be genetically established in two ways: fairly discrete, like eye color, or falling along a continuum, like the height. He already tackled the issue in several venues, such as the February/March 2006 article of Scientific American Mind “Do Gays Have a Choice?”.

His new research shakes the common concept that everyone is strictly either “gay” or “straight”, showing that this is misleading. The study was made on about 18,000 volunteers who completed an online questionnaire. “Sexual orientation actually lies on a smooth continuum, and the way people state their orientation is often a poor predictor of their true sexual behaviors and fantasies. Someone can call himself “gay” but behave “straight,” and vice versa.”, wrote Epstein in Scientific American.

He will report the results of his research at the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality meeting in November. Epstein found the same continuum of scores in the U.S. and in 12 other countries.

The research revealed that less than 10 % of the people score as “pure” heterosexual or homosexual and on average, females are more inclined than men towards a homosexual orientation. “My study suggests that characterizing sexual orientation properly requires two numbers: mean sexual orientation (where a given person lies on the continuum) and sexual orientation range (how much flexibility or “choice” the person has in expressing that orientation, which also forms a continuum).”, said Epstein.

So next time when they laugh at you just because you’re gay, don’t mind them! Go ahead and spend some quality time with your girlfriend / boyfriend …or (why not?) with both.


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Bisexual Dating

On the surface, bisexual dating may seem like the best of both worlds; the option to date both men and women. The reality, however, is that bisexual dating can be difficult for the bisexual person and his or her partner. The important first steps toward successful bisexual dating are to learn about yourself, if you are bisexual, and understanding the needs of your bisexual partner.

mv3p5wwCe71qbrjcdo1_500What Is a Bisexual?

A person who is bisexual is someone who is attracted to males and females. How much they are attracted, and in what manner, will vary from person to person. For example, a bisexual man may be physically attracted to women, but feel emotionally and intellectually attracted to other men. It can also be even more subtle. A woman may prefer the company of men both physically and emotionally, yet may still feel some attraction toward other women.

The definition of a bisexual, then, is someone who has the capacity to love both sexes and to be attracted to both in one form or another. It does not necessarily mean acting out that attraction sexually. It may never be more than a feeling inside the bisexual, yet it is those feelings which make him or her bisexual.

Understand Your Bisexual Feelings

If you know or suspect you are bisexual, learn about your feelings so you can better understand yourself and what you desire. Some questions to think about include:

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Are you physically attracted to one or both sexes?
Which gender are you the most comfortable around?
Do you identify most with being heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual?
When seeking emotional comfort, do you prefer men or women?

Answering these questions will help you identify what you need in a relationship. Maybe you will determine that you are sexually attracted to one gender, but prefer the company of the other gender in all other situations. Or, perhaps you will realize that you greatly prefer one gender in all aspects of dating, but still have feelings for the other.

Begin Bisexual Dating

There are some websites available that cater to bisexuals. You can use them to help you find other bisexuals to start a relationship with. Keep in mind, however, that some people on these sites are truly bisexual while others may just be curious.

This site allows you to search for other bisexuals and participate in message boards, online chat and blogs. There are advice columns as well.

They have been in business since 2001 and offer a free personality profile. You can begin browsing profiles without needing to register.

Bi Dating Now. Memberships are free on this site. You will also be able to browse members of other dating sites, if you are open to finding a non-bisexual match.

Conclusion

Being bisexual may feel like it makes relationships more complicated, but it involves basic interpersonal challenges everyone faces. Knowing who you are and what you need in a relationship are the questions everyone must figure out in order to be happy.


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What Would You Do When Your Love Broke Up

If your relationship are broking up? Even if you’re not quarreling with your partner, you may have started having problems because the spark of love has dimmed so low that you can’t feel it. If that’s the case, you don’t need to fret – if you come up with a plan to save the relationship you can take tips from dating site ,example bipeoplemeet.com, made for families. But, if you do not want to visit these site then We have five easy steps that you can take to bring back the spark and spice in your love life. Keep reading if you believe in the power of love and want a better relationship.

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Five Steps to Improve Your Relationship

Here are five simple and specific steps you should follow if you want
to improve your relationship. No matter how long you’ve been with
your partner, these tips and techniques are going to allow you to
bring a little spark back into your life – the spark of bisexual love!

Discover the Problem – If you’ve lost the spark in your relationship, there’s probably a reason. Take the time to examine every aspect of you and your partner’s life to try to find out what happened.

Look at Wants and Needs – A good place to start is by looking at the wants and needs of both people involved. This can make it easier to make sure both partners are happy at all times.

Remember Them – You might slip a note in your partner’s lunch telling them you love them to surprise them or do something else. Whatever you decide, make sure you don’t forget the other person and what they need to be happy.

Make an Effort – Even if you’re not in the mood for love, you should make an effort to make sure your partner is happy. This selflessness is one of the foundations of true love and will help you reignite the spark in your relationship for sure.

Don’t Give Up – If you truly love someone, you’re never going to give up on them. There may come a time when you need to walk away from them for a while, but if you believe in true love, you should never give up – unless the other person is hurting you physically, mentally or emotionally.

By following the five steps outlined above, you’re going to start heading in the right direction in your relationship. While there are no guarantees that another person is going to love you, there’s still a chance you can work to make the relationship better. Never give up and never surrender! When it comes to love, you really need to work at it to make sure you keep the spice going in and out of the bedroom. Have love tips of your own? Leave a comment and let us know how you keep the spark in your relationship.

If you really want to do good, you’ll want to get a certificate in massage so you know exactly what you’re doing. Your partner is going to thank you for going the extra mile!


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Do You Really Understand Bisexual Dating?

On the surface, bisexual dating may seem like the best of both worlds; the option to date both men and women. The reality, however, is that bisexual dating can be difficult for the bisexual person and his or her partner. The important first steps toward successful bisexual dating are to learn about yourself, if you are bisexual, and understanding the needs of your bisexual partner.Understand Your Bisexual Feelings.

If you know or suspect you are bisexual, learn about your feelings so you can better understand yourself and what you desire. Some questions to think about include:

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Are you physically attracted to one or both sexes?Which gender are you the most comfortable around?Do you identify most with being heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual?When seeking emotional comfort, do you prefer men or women?Answering these questions will help you identify what you need in a relationship. Maybe you will determine that you are sexually attracted to one gender, but prefer the company of the other gender in all other situations. Or, perhaps you will realize that you greatly prefer one gender in all aspects of dating, but still have feelings for the other.
My Partner Says They Are Bisexual
If you are involved with someone who reveals she or he is bisexual, you will need to speak with your partner about his or her feelings. Your partner may love you deeply and feel sexually attracted to you as well, but needs to spend some time with the other sex in order to be fully satisfied. Talk about this together and determine if you are comfortable knowing this about your partner. If you are, then work on a solution to keep the two of you together but provide for the needs of your partner as well.
Starting a New Bisexual Relationship
If you are currently single, now is a good time to think about trying to start a relationship with another bisexual person. But before you do, consider your feelings and what you need from a relationship.
You should consider questions such as these before getting seriously involved with someone new. The great thing about being in a relationship with another bisexual is that he or she will understand you in a way that a non-bisexual cannot.
Begin Bisexual Dating
There are some websites available that cater to bisexuals. You can use them to help you find other bisexuals to start a relationship with. Keep in mind, however, that some people on these sites are truly bisexual while others may just be curious e.g bisexualsmeet.com.
Being bisexual may feel like it makes relationships more complicated, but it involves basic Interpersonal challenges everyone faces. Knowing who you are and what you need in a relationship are the questions everyone must figure out in order to be happy.


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How to Date your friend If not certain her Lesbian or Bisexual

If you are not certain her Lesbian or Bisexual and interested in her, either as girlfriends or simply friends with benefits, try these simple steps.
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1.Make sure that you and the girl in question are truly really good friends, and would be comfortable in this type of situation. You don’t want your best friend to flip out on you, that would be bad.
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2.Use touch to take a “temperature reading.” If you notice that she goes out of her way to touch you, even just on the shoulder, arm, etc., stand closer to you than normal, or other clues, you can get a “read” on the way she feels. If the level and type of touching she does to you seems normal and friendly, then you try touching her, just let your hand linger on her arm a little longer, or sling your arm around the lower part of her back. If she looks up at you with a smile, or snuggles closer, that’s a good sign that she may be at least subconsciously interested.
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3.Question her in private. She will most likely not be honest in front of people if she isn’t “out” or isn’t sure how much experimenting she might like to do. Besides, it’s nobody’s business but yours.
4.Divert the topic to a public personality. Instead of just openly flirting with a girl that you are not sure has the same sexual preference that you do, try discussing bisexual people in the media or whom you know from work or school. Observe her opinion on said bisexual(s).
5.Make a move. Once you are sure that she is also lesbian/bisexual or bi-curious, invite her to spend time with you, alone some day/night.
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  • Tips
  1. Try not to make the night out with her seem as though it were a date – unless it is. Spending an evening with a pal is one thing, but if you have something more in mind, be honest with her. Don’t ambush her. Be clear and direct about your intentions for the evening, don’t trick your friend into dating you.
  2. If you do end up hooking up, establish between yourselves where you stand. Friends with benefits is difficult to maintain, but if you are both willing, it is a more casual arrangement than an actual exclusive relationship.
  3. Use notes if she gets uncomfortable in face-to-face conversations. Do not sign the notes! This could be potential blackmail later.
  4. If she keeps her walls up, it’s most likely that she is straight.
  • Warnings
  •  Do not try to pressure her into doing anything she doesn’t want to do.
  • If she says no, accept it and move on. She may think about it a while and then have a change of heart.


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Focus On Bisexual Health

What is bisexuality?

Bisexuality, is an capacity of sexual orientation and sexually activity refers to both gender Male and female. According to the national health and behavior research, women have bisexual orientation than men, homosexual tendencies of women less than men.Generally, bisexuals identify as being attracted to both males and females, but this doesn’t necessarily mean that bisexuals are equally attracted to both men and women.

What factors affect on bisexual health

1.External factors

Firstly,Substance use.

Research shows that bisexual women have higher rates of drug use than heterosexual women. Some studies indicate that the rates are similar to those of lesbians and some suggest that they are slightly higher.Research has not tended to look at bisexual men separately from gay men for this topic. Men who have sex with men report higher rates of substance use than the general population, but differences between gay and bisexual men are not known.

Secondly, Alcohol use.

In several studies, bisexual women report the highest rates of alcohol use, heavy drinking and alcohol related problems when compared to heterosexual and lesbian women.With bisexual men, the picture is less clear. In one study, bisexual men did not report more alcohol problems or use than men of other sexual orientations. In another, bisexual men did show higher rates of alcohol misuse.

Thirdly, Sexual Health.

Bisexual women report higher risk sexual behavior than heterosexual women. Compared to heterosexual women and lesbians, bisexual women have the highest rates of combining substance/alcohol use and sex, which can be associated with higher risk sexual behaviors.For bisexual men who have sex with men, there is an increased risk of HIV infection. Sexually transmitted infections such as syphilis, gonorrhea and Hepatitis A and B also occur in higher rates in men who have sex with men. Bisexual and gay men are more likely to report having an STI. On the other hand, one study shows that bisexual men report less risky sexual behavior with males than gay men.

2.Inherent factors

Heart disease

This health concern impacts bisexual women, but does not seem to be a particular risk factor for bisexual men as compared to men of other sexual orientations.Heart disease is the No. 1 killer of all women There are some risk factors that you cannot control, such as age, family health history, and race. But you can protect yourself from heart disease by not smoking, controlling your blood pressure and cholesterol, exercising, and eating well.

Depression and anxiety

Bisexual men and women report consistently higher levels of depression and anxiety than heterosexuals, in some studies similar to lesbians and gay men, and in other studies higher. The likelihood of depression or anxiety may be greater, and the problem may be more severe for those men and women who remain in the closet or who do not have adequate social supports. Adolescents and young adults may be at particularly high risk of suicide because of these concerns. Culturally sensitive mental health services can be effective in the prevention, early detection, and treatment of these conditions.By making new friends,dating online and pouring out your depression and anxiey,  bisexualsmeet.com can help you with these problems.


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Three Contributions to the Theory of Sex

In his Three Contributions to the Theory of Sex (1920), Freud discusses the concept of inversion (i.e.bisexuality) with respect to its innateness, or the biological predisposition to homosexuality or bisexuality.

The conclusions that he draws are based on the fact that at early stages of development, humans undergo a period of hermaphrodism. Based on this, he asserts that, “the conception which we gather from this long known anatomical fact is the original predisposition to bisexuality, which in the course of development has changed to monosexuality, leaving slight remnants of the stunted sex.”

This develops into a general theory that attraction to both sexes is possible, but that one is more common for each sex. He explains the inversion of homosexual attraction as the result of a traumatic episode or episodes that prevent the normal development of an attraction for the opposite sex.

Freud famously characterized humans as naturally “polymorphously perverse,” meaning either that practically any object can be a source of erotic fulfillment, or that babies are relatively indifferent to the object of erotic fulfillment.These theory of sex help us more realize about bisexual and homosexual.If you are suffering from bisexual, website bisexualsmeet.com could help you solve your situation, embarassment and feelings.

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